For My Ladies ;

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship th at's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don 't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. C hange comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man wil l only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you are always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

420

elaborate later

too high to type now

This is what happens when you smoke Crack .

(Cassie Shaves Head Half-Bald)

I hate how everyone in Hollywood doing drastic changes
and thinking people gun be okay with that shit
Some drastic changes like 808's , im cool with
But some like Lil Wayne "Prom Queen" are fucking retarded

Tsk Tsk .

"When you try to be different,
your just like everyone "trying to be different"
Just Be You ; An original is worth a million times more than it's copies .

i cried while writing this.

I PRAY ;

That i will not become any thing like my mother .
That i will not make my daughter feel how my mother makes me feel ;
like a fucking failure who will never make anything of her life
That i will never put a mere boyfriend over my daughter .
That I will not put so many lies into my daughter, that she starts to believe it .
That i will finally be free of this shit .
That i will stop feeling empty inside .
That the tears will eventually stop .
That i will never have to return to this hellhole again .
That i will not succumb to her immaturity .
That i will not let her get the best of me .
That someone, out there understands .

It's fucking sad when your mother puts everything
you own on the backyard lawn at 3am & not a give a fuck if you live or not
Its fucking sad when you have to call 911 to get into your house
It's fucking sad when your 16, sleeping on a park bench , all alone
getting bit up by mosquitos & every sounds scares you to death
Its even fucking sadder when it happens 4 nights in a row
Its fucking sad when you go to school hungry & tired
& the honor/ap classes are so much more than you can handle
and these bitches wont stop fucking with you & talking shit
& adding even more drama to your already chaotic ass life
so you get into fights because you do honestly have problems with anger
and incidentally, end up in alternative school 3 times .
Is fucking sad when you go into the bathroom stall at lunch to cry
Its fucking sad when you cry so much, you cant cry anymore
Its fucking sad when sudicial thoughts run through your head
IM BEAUTIFUL, IM YOUNG, AND IM TALENTED !
why the fuck should ending my life ever run through my head?
Its fucking sad when you cant tell your friends anything .
because they would never understand .
Everyone knows you as the go-lucky , happy as shit, party girl .
Big ass house, pool in the back , expensive clothes .?
shit what the fuck else coulda girl ask for ?
how about love , acceptance , happiness ?

I remember when someone called me spolied?
ME? spolied;? ha . i couldnt even ask my mom for $5 .
everything i fucking wear : I BOUGHT .
all my fucking sneakers : I BOUGHT .
not my man, not my siblings, and definitely not my fucking mother .

my mother doesnt give me a ride ANYWHERE
& i sure damn dont ask for one

id rather walk than ride in a car with that crazy witch

Idgaf if my siblings see this .

Im tired of holding this shit back .

FUCK ALL YOUR EXPECTATIONS .

I live for me . I die for me .

& I do for me,
since none of the rest of you motherfuckers never will .